Accepting that you’re getting oldI’m 30, and to some people, I’m the oldest guy in the world. I know in reality 30 is not that old and I still have plenty more life to…3d ago3d ago
How much can you change your partner?Hello Medium, I am back. Not in full capacity, but there will still be content from myself. I think I will split it between Substack and…4d ago4d ago
I’m turning 30 tomorrow and what do I have to show for it?30 is a landmark birthday and one that I surprisingly don’t care about anymore. I cared about it a few years ago, but now, I couldn’t care…Jan 15Jan 15
I’ve accepted the workplace bullshit and it’s actually made things worsePeople talk about acceptance a lot in personal development and whilst it does have its benefits in many ways, it’s always been a flawed…Jan 131Jan 131
Signs your new team is a mess and it’s their faultIn the past, I have been hired by a few companies to help them with some tasks because they were struggling in one way or another. It’s…Jan 12Jan 12
Before you tell me to go and help others, look at yourselfAre you doing anything to help people? I bet you aren’t and you haven’t done anything to genuinely help someone in a long time. But people…Jan 111Jan 111
Sometimes all you can do to help people is be a good influenceAs I get older I am moving away from helping people directly. It’s not because I hate people or that I want to see certain people suffer…Jan 103Jan 103
I’m being forced into a side hustleI don’t believe in 1 stream of income, I think it’s dumb. Fair enough to the people who can have 1 stream and be ok, but I and many others…Jan 91Jan 91
I’ve stopped looking for a passion at workSome people will tell you to do something you’re passionate about for a living, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve realised that this isn’t the…Jan 81Jan 81
Suffering imagined troublesA philosopher said that most of the troubles we suffer in life are imagined, and in my case, that’s definitely true. Even today I was…Jan 7Jan 7