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Being the “moody person” at work
We’ve all had a moody person at work, but as someone who’s been labelled moody, I’d like to say it’s what it looks like. Yes, I don’t speak much, and no I don’t join in much either, but I am not moody, there is another reason for my behaviour.
I’m just trying to survive in an environment I don’t fit into.
I’m at the age where I can’t fake it and I don’t care how it looks. What do I look like at nearly 30 years old pretending to be someone I’m not? I’m comfortable in my own skin, and I’m comfortable with people not liking me. You have to be comfortable with people not liking you as people will dislike you for the smallest reasons.
People aren’t comfortable with the idea that I don’t like them. I feel like the acquaintance at work is dying and everyone has to pretend to be besties due to people being so sensitive now.
I’m not joining in with the goofy shit
People make me cringe at work sometimes, so I choose not to join in with that. I rarely meet a funny person in the workplace, and I’ve run out of fake laughs, I refuse to do it. I’m not getting involved with cliques or drama, and at some companies that leaves you all by yourself.
I don’t want to hang out with people after work and gossip about people we pretend to like at work. I’ll…