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How to reject a married coworker

The Ordinary Man
2 min readDec 5, 2022

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When you’re a sexy piece of ass there is a chance that a lot of people at work will be attracted to you, and some of those people may be in relationships, relationships that are established by law.

If you don’t want to be a homewrecker then you need to learn how to get rid of these people and make sure that they don’t come back. It’s a hard situation to be in especially when the person has power over you.

Remind them that they’re married

If you remind someone who’s making an advance that they’re married it will bring them a massive feeling of shame (unless they’re a sociopath). How they react from there will be down to them personally, but they will back off for the time being.

They may get angry, they may feel sad and realise their mistake. But one thing that’s guaranteed is that they’re going to be embarrassed and the advance has been thwarted.

Say you respect relationships

Tell them that you respect relationships and not ones that are just your own. Even if this asshole wants to ruin what they have, you don’t want to do that. Let them know why as well and hopefully they’ll realise their mistake…

It’s unlikely, but there’s nothing wrong with hoping.

Set boundaries

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