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I don’t want to date at work

The Ordinary Man
3 min readNov 21, 2022

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Work is one of the most common places that people meet their partners. It makes sense as in a lot of jobs you’re in a confined space for a long time. It’s only natural that you’re going to develop feelings for someone, and I imagine fucking average and sometimes ugly women from work all the time.

But I definitely don’t want to date any women from work in real life, not even if they’re attractive. I don’t even want to sleep with them anymore because that can cause a whole series of problems.

People are at their worst at work

Women aren’t very attractive to me at work because people are at their worst at work. I don’t know what is it, but people just seem extra cunty and weird. All the Karens get amplified and people are shitty to each other just for the sake of it. People really show their immature side.

People are also so fake at work and the longer you’re in the workforce the easier you can see this. It’s hard to date someone when you can’t trust them, and you can’t trust someone being fake.

I used to date girls from work and they were genuinely weird to interact with because they were trying to keep up their fake image as well as get to know me. You can’t do both.

The hostility

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