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I should never doubt myself when it comes to analysing people
When it comes to analysing people, I think I’m pretty good in the long run. I don’t believe that anyone is perfect at this because people can vary a lot depending on where they’re from and what they’ve been through in their lives.
Different cultures produce different types of people, and then there may be types of people that you’ve never encountered before. If people have mental health issues they tend to be hard to read at times, plus you have people who are going through trauma which can change a person to act in strange ways.
Sometimes there are those people who throw you off. One minute they seem cool and another you’re not sure at all, but in the end, it’s usually the first conclusion you made about them that’s correct. When I first speak to people over message it’s like this. It’s hard to read someone through words and a profile picture alone.
Because they’re so inconsistent and unfamiliar that they come across as being “off” and you’re not sure what’s happening. Something is making you feel uneasy but you’re not sure if it's you or them. This is why it’s important not to judge people immediately, give them time and people will show you who they truly are.
