She ticks so many boxes but I don’t like her

I’m talking to someone new right now who seems great. She’s nice as far as I can tell, and she ticks so many boxes. But for whatever reason I don’t think I like her, but I will still give it a try into the new year.

It’s only been a week of talking to her but she’s been following me on IG for a lot longer and she’s best friends with my former Insta Crush. My Insta Crush set me up with her friend and here we are.

I want to speak about this dynamic in another post as she’s pretty unhappy I have been speaking to her friend so much and not as much to her. She said this to me and I asked her what she expected, to which she replied “Idk”. This is a girl dating someone else.

A week is a short time to think about things like this, but it’s been intense. She messages me 24/7 and constantly sends me picture updates of her life just as my Insta Crush did/does. So I feel like I know her way more than I should after a week. This could be the entire problem right here.

The boxes she ticks

She’s a competent person and a fairly intelligent one too. She has things going on in her life and she seems to have a good grasp of who she is as a person, from the outside anyway. You never really know this until you get to know them better. She has many hobbies in common and she’s…