She was using me for attention whilst dating 2 other guys

Don’t be this guy if you can. Don’t be the guy (or girl) getting used for attention whilst the girl you like is dating other men. To be fair, I didn’t know the true details of her relationship with these other guys until I was speaking to her for a while, and I did try and cut things off immediately…

But she came back. Again and again and again.

I’ve never had this happen before. Any other time a girl has mentioned she’s seeing other guys and I cut things off I never hear from her again. But this one was in love with attention to the point it was destructive to everyone in involved.

It’s a shame more than anything else.

What was the situation with the other guys?

There were 2 other guys as I’ve mentioned before. One of them I’m pretty sure she’d gone on holiday with as he was Asian and she had just been on a tour of Asia that she couldn’t afford on her wage. I also saw pictures of a guy on IG in some of her holiday pictures.

She said she didn’t think this one was going anywhere as he’d moved back to Japan and was effectively out of the picture. At this time I was still interested as he was on the other side of the world.