The fear of having a partner who can stand up for themselves

Some people are scared of spiders and other people are scared of strangers breaking into their house, eating their cereal and then killing them. Then there are people who are scared of something that is a lot more simple than that. They’re scared of finding a partner that has the audacity to stand up for themselves.

That’s right, their biggest fear is finding someone who won’t bend over and do whatever they say without question. In the narcissistic world that we live in today, there are a lot of people who don’t want to date someone who challenges their thoughts and ideas.

They’re happy being single apparently. That’s why they’re always dating and running through partners like sweets. Because they’re happy being single.

The trap

When I speak to girls a complaint that I hear a lot of them have is that they want a guy who is strong and a leader, but they don’t think there are any guys out there like that. The thing is, there are loads, the women like this just don’t attract any of them.

They don’t attract them because they don’t want to be challenged. If they are challenged they they nuke the entire relationship and claim they’re a victim of something.