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To meet interesting people you have to do interesting things

The Ordinary Man
3 min readAug 14, 2024

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If you’re ever wondering why everyone in your life is boring, this is most likely the reason why. You’re not doing interesting things so you’re not running into any interesting people. Your lifestyle attracts certain types of people.

If you’re dating there are never any interesting people on dating apps. Interesting people are outside, not on an app demanding that a stranger speak to them for months for attention with no intention of meeting up.

If you want interesting friends you’re not going to find them in a corporate office. Offices are for boring fat people who get scared when there is a slight change in their lives. You need a life outside of work, not the person who’s proud to have worked 70 hours a week.

You’re not going to meet cool people sitting at home

You complain that you’re not meeting people or that you’re not meeting cool people, but you never leave the house. How are people supposed to meet you if you’re avoiding them? It’s a sign that you’re the problem.

They’re not going to stumble upon your house and fall in love when you answer the door, you’re going to have to go out and do social things. Not only social things but things where you’re going to meet people you like. None of these…

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