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Why I’ll probably never date a British white woman again

The Ordinary Man
5 min readNov 2, 2023

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This isn’t a hate post or anything and I’m not trying to single out white British women and say they’re undatable, I’m trying to express why I’ll probably never date one again and why. The reasons are more cultural than anything else, I’ve dated enough of them to see that.

They have a lot of good qualities but they’re not for me on a romantic level. It’s more of a case of not seeing eye to eye, and there is nothing wrong with that.

It’s not easy dating these women, there is a lot that comes with it and it doesn’t feel good on my side. Rarely have I ever dated a girl from this demo and felt happy or lucky to be dating them. Even when it comes to day-to-day interactions with them, a lot of them can be difficult for me to be around.

Bear in mind I was born in the UK in a very white town so I’m not unfamiliar with them and how they work.

White women who only date black guys

Probably some of the most racist people out there but it’s not thought of that way due to the fact that they “love” black guys, or they love the idea of them. I’ve dated a few of these women and they’re genuinely disturbing to be around.

You’re not seen as a person and you’re with someone that sees you as a stereotype and only wants…

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