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You’re overly judgemental and that makes you hard to be around
Sometimes I think I’m judgemental but then I get around other people and realise I’m very reasonable. We all judge and not all judgements are bad or even thought about for a significant period of time.
I live in the UK where people are massively judgemental. People might look at this as a cultural thing, but it's a sign that the people here are insecure. Why are people insecure? Because everyone is judging them and people are expected to live up to a shallow pretentious culture.
As I’ve gotten older I judge people less, but there are things that I judge people more for than I used to. I judge people for why they vote when I didn’t care as much when I was younger. It says a lot about you as a person.
I judge people more for the way they act as adults as I know how much is in our control. I try and give people leeway and I don’t judge people for small things because I am more open-minded and I know that most things don’t matter.
People who judge you for everything are difficult to be around and as a result, they don’t have many people around them. This ironically makes them even more insecure and they take it out on others by judging them.
